The power, freedom and (occasional) silliness of trans chosen names

From consulting parents to new coinages, finding a name that aligns with your gender identity is a joy.

Words by Jamie Windust

For many trans and non-binary people, names hold a lot of importance. Our names, the words ascribed to us at birth, the very word we ultimately have inscribed in our final resting place, has a lot of significance for all of us: but especially for those who decide, at whatever point in their life, to choose a new one. 

From choosing the ‘right’ name, to having a re-naming ceremony, what does it look like for trans and non-binary people right now who want to re-christen themselves with a brand new name?

Like all aspects of transitioning, changing one's name is unique to the individual. Some trans people won’t feel the desire to change their name, much like some trans or non-binary people don’t feel inclined to medically transition. Some people who do decide to step into the world with a new name often seek inspiration from other trans folks, or in fact see their new name as something that can be connected to the name they’re saying goodbye to.